Judges in different states, including Wisconsin, have started to award fathers custody and spousal or child support because many dads have taken on stay-at-home roles as their wives have become primary breadwinners. With more mothers going into the workplace, fathers are often getting primary custody of their children in divorces. Changing roles in society have altered child custody trends. Sometimes a woman’s desire to be successful can mean that she spends more time outside her home than her husband, which can affect whether she receives physical custody of her children in a divorce.
In the past, women received custody of children because of traditional roles in society. Women often received primary custody of their children and homes while men had visitation rights. Judges have increasingly started to award fathers primary custody because their decisions have been based more on which parents can spend more time with children in a given day, especially when they are younger. When fathers don’t receive physical custody, judges are more prone to give dads 50 percent of the time with their children. Working moms and dads have a better chance of co-parenting if they initially work out parenting agreements together during divorces.
Working parents often work to develop parenting plans in the best interests of their children because going to court can be a lengthy and expensive process. Parenting plans help divorced couples or parents who aren’t together to come up with schedules and other decisions regarding their children.
Child custody agreements are often but not always a part of a divorce process. A child custody dispute between parents can often be emotional for the parents and children. Judges usually award joint custody or decide on a child custody order granting certain visitation rights to one parent and primary custody to the other. A family law attorney may be able to assist in ensuring fair child custody.
Source: Huffington Post, “Child Custody and the Working Mom“, Lisa Helfend Meyer, June 01, 2013