Wisconsin reality television fans may have been following the story involving Jon Gosselin and his quest to get custody of his 11-year-old daughter. Reports indicate that the girl told her father that her mother was being cruel toward her and that she was being forced to continue to appear on television although she didn’t want to. Jon and his ex-wife Kate Gosselin were said to be on bad terms prior to their divorce and do not have a relationship currently.
However, whether or not a judge will modify an existing custody order depends on whether or not there has been a change in circumstances. It will be up to Jon Gosselin as the non-custodial parent to prove that such a change has taken place. It is unlikely that he will get custody of the child, as changing the custody order could have an impact on the other children.
If the two parents desire, they may be able to reach a compromise in a situation such as this one. Reaching a middle ground will allow the girl to spend more time with her father without having to take her away from her brothers and sisters. This may be seen as in the best interest of the child, which would be the top priority of any ruling that a judge may make.
Parents who wish to modify an existing child custody order may wish to talk to the custodial parent before taking legal action. It may be possible to come to an agreement that is in the best interest of the children without the need to go to court. However, if no agreement can be reached, it may be worthwhile to consult an attorney to determine how a parent may gain sole custody or additional parental rights to a child.